Some of my child's best therapy never happened in a therapy room
By Real Ray C on
When my child was younger, I spent so much time looking for the "right" therapies that I almost overlooked something important.
The things that helped most were often the things they genuinely enjoyed.
I remember buying a simple ring-toss game at a garage sale. I wasn't thinking about therapy. I just thought it looked fun.
For weeks, they played with it every day.
What looked like a game was actually helping with hand control, balance, coordination, and confidence. The best part was that they didn't see it as work.
They just wanted to beat their score from the day before.
That experience changed how I looked at development.
Instead of asking, "What therapy should we do next?" I started asking, "What does my child love doing?"
Sometimes the answer was throwing bean bags into a basket.
Sometimes it was pretending to run a restaurant from a toy kitchen.
Sometimes it was helping me sort groceries or organize drawers.
Those activities may not have looked like therapy from the outside, but they encouraged movement, problem-solving, communication, and independence.
I still believe therapy is important. Our family has benefited from it tremendously.
But I also think children with CP deserve the chance to learn through play, imagination, and hobbies not just appointments and exercises.
Some of my favorite memories aren't from a clinic.
They're from watching my child become completely absorbed in something they loved and realizing they were building skills at the same time.
Looking back, the biggest breakthroughs often happened when we followed their interests instead of a treatment plan.