Online multiplayer games don't change people... they reveal them

By JugglingNothing on

I've always thought online multiplayer games are one of the weirdest social experiments ever created. Put a group of strangers together; give them a shared objective; add a little pressure, and within minutes you'll see sides of people that might take months to show up in real life. I've seen both extremes. One night in a team-based game, I completely messed up a match for my squad. We lost because of a mistake I made, and I was expecting the usual flood of insults. Instead, one of the players stayed in voice chat afterward and spent twenty minutes explaining what I should have done differently. We queued again, won the next game, and ended up playing together for weeks. I've also seen players explode over things that barely mattered. A missed objective. A bad round. One unlucky play. Suddenly someone is acting like their entire future depends on a virtual scoreboard. That's what fascinates me about multiplayer games. The game itself is often less interesting than the people playing it. Some players become leaders when things go wrong. Others become complainers. Some stay calm under pressure. Others immediately start looking for someone to blame. The funny thing is that winning and losing usually aren't what people remember years later. Most players remember the people. The teammate who carried the group through a difficult mission. The stranger who helped them learn the game. The guy who lost his mind because someone missed a shot. That's why I don't think games bring out the best or worst in people. I think they reveal what's already there. What's the most memorable person you've ever met in an online game?

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